Single: a Notion to be noted..... n celebrated.

I'll try not to go on too long here but......... I think it has become a subconscious mission of mine- to teach and empower women to be on their own.. if ur single accept n celebrate it.


I think if I wrote a book right now: it'd be called 'Single- the Way to go'. I have been saying this for a long time...... now and i do still feel this way. I'm open to it changing- but while it hasnt, for a while now....... I am getting very content with the idea of 'staying single'. Dating is too much of hassle- apparently..... for me anyway. I'm not against it for other ppl..... i just dont think its for everyone. Marriage n all that is very religion- faith based if you think about it....... if i could advocate for anything itd be...... 'why are ya'll so many of ya'll wanting to GET married!!!! ? ' thats what i ask/ wonder. Romance, i am coming to believe........ is just not in the cards for me. And while that used to freak me out- ive made a peace with it. It's hollywood that has u so freaked out (GIRLS now included). B/c everything/ the rom coms etc....... are relationship/ romance based.


Theres nothing out there that i know of that preaches 'Single....... Awesome!' Ya dont need 'em. Him/ her... it... whatever. Single is the way to go- they just wont tell you that. Please...... spare your sanity.... dont date.


I'm not saying soulmates dont exist or we dont crave romance.... but some of us... just dont get it. We dont get that sort of 'luxury' of life....... and i say luxury meaning privilege..... (its not for everyone)- and I'm coming to believe....... it's not for me either. I'm young saying this..... n in a way..... its very depressing writing this- but i feel the more i come to terms and grips with this fact/ notion- the less it will shock me, and the more i will be accustomed to this idea- and thus comfortable with it- and less resentful. I want to make a peace with it is my goal. Nothing has ever confused me more....... than those types of relationships (n i havent had many) ! ..... but anyhow. I digress a little- I guess a subconscious mission has sort of arisen in all this ..... n that is....... Women: Romance isnt for everyone. Men too. That goes for both. Its not..... its a privilege........ romantic rights........ they dont exist- we have no 'Right' to romance..... Its a privilege that only some get........ if theyre so lucky and fortunate. Others....... we must own dogs............. No i'm being silly- but i do mean it. We get love/ and are given love other ways. Its not necessarily in the romantic sense but others........ n thats fine- and that should be enough and if thats all you have and are given- Be grateful. Some ppl dont even have that.

I wouldnt say my standards for life have dropped........ theyve just become more realistic. And as sad and depressing as that may be..... its true. GuysAsFriends..... its fine. OtherthanThat makesYouCrayyyyyyy.